16th - Spend a lovely day

" It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth - and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up - that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had. "  Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

No matter in how mood you are, you can always find strength to spend a lovely day. I will give you a few examples that will change your mood even when you feel down or lonely.

Smile at strangers - I had a girlfriend that told me that she always smile at strangers. I didn't understand that. Why would she smile at strangers?That was weird for me and I thought that only crazy person do that. I found out I was wrong. I found out that the most beautiful thing you can see on someone else face is their smile. When you will smile at people some of them will smile at you back and that will change your day for the better. As Mother Teresa used to say: " Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing." 

Slow down - Sometimes we need to slow down. Maybe to stop the car and park it for a while. Our lives become so fast that we don't have time yet to slow down. Plese, slow down when you see something beautiful. I mean from mother nature, not a woman in skirt right now :)  Take time for a little break. For example to see a nice lake, beautiful meadow or a rainbow. Every day we can see a lot of beauty around.


Say thank you - It is always nice when someone say thank you to me. So why shlouldn't I do that first. Every day it is an opportunity to say it again and again. Don't miss it. People will start to like you. They will find a way to do something else for you, because they will know you really care. 

Give lots of compliments - If you like someone else's hair, just say it. If you like a dress a woman is wearing, just say it. If you think, she is beautiful, say it. Everyone is happy to hear it. People always appreciate it if you really mean it. Maybe you can do someone else day better.


Dress nicely - I think we should dress according the rule " wear the dress you will wear if you knew you are going to die today." I don't want to say that you should buy some really expensive brands. That is not important. I just want to say that in nice clothes, you will look better, feel better and people will like to see you again.

Wear perfume - I always like when a woman smell great. So why shouldn't I smell awesome. People will notice it. They receive you with all their senses. Good perfume will give people around you feel, that you care about yourself. And if you care about yourself, you care about others as well.

Observe and listen - People like if you are listen to them. Sometimes they don't need your solutions for their problems, they just need someone to listen to them. Do you know why Facebook is so popular ? You write something and suddenly you have a lot of automatic listeners.

Be charming - People will noticed if you are charismatic person. You don't need to be Brad Pitt do behave charming. Everything you need to do is to know how to respond to others, be nice to them, try to help the, smile at them and to be thankful for everything.


Wish people lovely day - Pople will remember it trust me. Through the day I am meeting people because of business and they are not always nice to me. Sometimes they have no time for me, because they are busy doing their job. But even if they don't have time to speak with me, I thank them and wish them a lovely day. Sometimes they change their minds and find a little time for me. But if they don't, they are allways nicer to me next time.

15th - Let God Love You

                       By this the love of God was manifested in us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world so that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has beheld God at any time; if we love one another, God abides in us, and His love is perfected in us. (John 13:34-35)            

               The more you study the Bible the more you will find out that it is not important how to love God but how to let God love us. What can we do to receive all his love. Once we could understand that, everything will make sense...

               Christianity is not mostly moralism but mysticism. It is not at first side about examining and presenting ideal human behaviour. Its first interest is to tell us about the love which alone itself allows us to be ideal. Once we become ideal because of this love, ideal human behaviour will appear itself.  

             If could we in some way expose us to radiation of the Gods love, we could see permanent change not just on our surface but in the deepest core of our existence. Jesus story is testimony what will happen with a human which is fully exposed to Gods love. How consequence it have in his life and others life. Once this kind of love get into his life he could listen to the people and help them, it help him to approach them, heal them and resurrect them. This love can grow in us and if we are open to it, it can fulfil all parts of our existence. All this will happen if you will remove all obstacles which prevent full development of this love.

          Important is to learn how to pray. Only during the pray you will reach Gods love and you can experienced its coming into your life. Sense of the pray is to lead away the prayer from himself in the new world where he doesn't live just for himself but for the others. In the community which transcend the barrier of time and space. He is invited to completely new environment where he will learn to live with everyone and for everyone and step by step he will forget to his little selfish world. If someone experienced that he is loved, he can not be the same. It is tremendous difference if someone knows that he is loved and if he can experienced that he is loved. Only knowledge isn't enough. Knowledge will never change anyone, but experience if it is enough deep and long-term can do that. There is some analogy with human love. If I love some woman, but that woman doesn't love me back, how can I she be changed to the better? She can not feel the love back. It is just information for her. She can not experienced that love. So let God love you with all yours errors :)

14th - Transform your sins and weaknesses into your charismas

“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” Albert Einstein

Everyone on this planet can by charismatic person in his own way. Since every person is unique and special, it is not right to compare yourself with another. Everyone have his original character. Important is just to find out how your gifts or charismas are so once you will find out, you can work with them and develop them. Let me help you to find your gifts. We can say that everyone is a sinner and everyone have some weaknesses. It is very often that this two things are connected with your charismas. We can say tell me your sins and weaknesses and I will tell you your charismas and you can apply it opposite as well. Here are couple of examples, maybe you can find yourself in some of them.

           Maybe you are very ambitious, priggish and you always want to win. You want to be better than anyone else and you are very competitive. Nothing can satisfy you, just to win and to be at first place. You are lofty, sometimes angry and always rebel. You have enjoyment to criticise others. All of this sins or weaknesses you can transform into leadership and zeal. This kind of person can change things around him to the better and can be very enthusiastic. And not just change things but to see things that should be changed. If you are this kind of person, you have strong need to help others.

             If you are full of sexual desires and promiscuity and you are always searching for casual sex you have big affection to love. You want to love and you want to be loved. If you love someone, your love is stronger than anyone else love. Your charisma is confidentiality and you can be very contemplative person. With love you can digest mystical experience.

                 If you envy to other people for example their property or beauty and if you are jealous as well you have the gift of distinction. In deep look into another persons eyes you can discover human characteristics that other people can not see. You are very sensitive and perceptive. You can easily enter the private sector of another person.

            Another weakness is fear. You can transform it into the sensitivity, compassion and care. If you know someone who have mother heart, who is very kind, merciful you know someone who had in the past lot of apprehensions and fear. If this kind of gifted person are looking into someone else eyes he can easily see what kind of worries are there and what needs are there.

                 Maybe you are stubbornness person. This weakness can be transformed into persistence. If this will happen you are very lucky person. When you will meet some life difficulties, you can go easily further. You can suffer but nothing will break you. You will fight until the end. This kind of people are very rare.

Let your new discovered gifts will help to do better world :)